← Grammar Learning Center>Used To vs Would: Talking About the Past

Introduction

When we talk about things that were true in the past but are not true now, we use ‘used to’. For example: ‘I used to live in Paris’ (but I don’t live there now), or ‘She used to play the piano’ (but she doesn’t play anymore). This structure helps us describe past habits, repeated actions, and past states that have changed.

Understanding ‘Used To’

We form sentences with ‘used to’ + base verb. This structure can describe two types of past situations:1. **Past states** (things that were true): ‘I used to be shy’, ‘We used to have a dog’, ‘He used to be a teacher’

2. **Past habits and repeated actions**: ‘I used to play tennis every week’, ‘They used to visit us on Sundays’, ‘She used to read before bed’

The key point is that these situations are finished – they are no longer true in the present.

The Important Difference: Used To vs Would

Both ‘used to’ and ‘would’ can describe past repeated actions, but there is one critical difference:**USED TO** can describe:
– Past states: ‘I used to be tall for my age’
– Past actions: ‘I used to play tennis every Saturday’

**WOULD** can ONLY describe:
– Past actions: ‘I would play tennis every Saturday’ ✓
– NOT past states: ‘I would be tall for my age’ ✗

This is the most important rule to remember: **would cannot describe past states**. You cannot say ‘I would be shy’ or ‘She would have long hair’ to talk about the past.

When to Use Each One

Choose ‘used to’ when describing:
– How things were different: ‘This area used to be farmland’
– Past possessions: ‘We used to have a cat’
– Past characteristics: ‘He used to be very quiet’
– Past beliefs or feelings: ‘I used to believe in ghosts’
– Past habits: ‘I used to swim every morning’Choose ‘would’ when describing:
– Past repeated actions only: ‘Every summer, we would go camping’
– Past routines (actions only): ‘My grandfather would tell us stories’

If you’re unsure, ‘used to’ is always safe because it works for both states and actions.

Form and Structure

**Positive form:** subject + used to + base verb
– ‘I used to smoke’ (not ‘I used to smoked’)
– ‘They used to live here’**Negative form:** subject + didn’t use to + base verb
– ‘I didn’t use to like coffee’
– ‘She didn’t use to wear glasses’

Note: In negatives, we write ‘use to’ (not ‘used to’) after ‘didn’t’.

**Question form:** Did + subject + use to + base verb?
– ‘Did you use to play football?’
– ‘Did they use to work together?’

Again, we write ‘use to’ (not ‘used to’) in questions.

Examples

I used to be afraid of dogs, but now I love them.This describes a past state (being afraid) that is no longer true. We cannot use ‘would’ here because ‘be afraid’ is a state, not an action.
We used to go to the beach every summer.This describes a past repeated action. We could also say ‘We would go to the beach every summer’ because this is an action, not a state.
She used to have long hair.This describes a past state (having long hair). We cannot say ‘She would have long hair’ because ‘have’ here describes a state, not an action.
My dad would always sing in the car when I was young.This describes a past repeated action, so ‘would’ works perfectly. We could also say ‘My dad used to sing in the car’.
Did you use to live in London?A question about a past state. Notice we write ‘use to’ (not ‘used to’) after ‘did’.
I didn’t use to enjoy vegetables, but I do now.A negative sentence showing a change from the past. We write ‘use to’ (not ‘used to’) after ‘didn’t’.

Common Mistakes to Avoid

❌ Incorrect: I would be very shy when I was young.

✅ Correct: I used to be very shy when I was young.

Explanation: ‘Be shy’ is a state, not an action. ‘Would’ cannot describe states, only actions. Always use ‘used to’ for past states.

❌ Incorrect: She would have a dog.

✅ Correct: She used to have a dog.

Explanation: Having a dog (possession) is a state, not an action. Use ‘used to’ for past possessions and states.

❌ Incorrect: I used to smoked cigarettes.

✅ Correct: I used to smoke cigarettes.

Explanation: After ‘used to’, we always use the base form of the verb, never the past tense. It’s ‘used to + base verb’.

❌ Incorrect: Did you used to play tennis?

✅ Correct: Did you use to play tennis?

Explanation: In questions with ‘did’, we write ‘use to’ (without the ‘d’). The ‘did’ already shows past tense.

❌ Incorrect: I didn’t used to like coffee.

✅ Correct: I didn’t use to like coffee.

Explanation: In negatives with ‘didn’t’, we write ‘use to’ (without the ‘d’). The ‘didn’t’ already shows past tense.

❌ Incorrect: I use to live in Spain.

✅ Correct: I used to live in Spain.

Explanation: In positive sentences, we always write ‘used to’ (with the ‘d’). Only questions and negatives with ‘did/didn’t’ use ‘use to’.

Tips for Success

  • If you’re describing a past state (how things were, what existed, characteristics), you MUST use ‘used to’, never ‘would’.
  • If you’re describing a past action, both ‘used to’ and ‘would’ are often possible, but ‘used to’ is more common in everyday English.
  • Remember the spelling changes: ‘used to’ in positive sentences, but ‘use to’ after ‘did’ and ‘didn’t’.
  • A quick test: if you can say ‘I was…’ or ‘I had…’, then it’s a state and you need ‘used to’, not ‘would’.
  • ‘Used to’ always indicates that something has changed – it’s not true anymore in the present.
  • Don’t confuse ‘used to’ (past habits) with ‘be used to’ (be accustomed to) – they are completely different structures.

Learning Path Notes

Key Concepts in This Series:

  • Used to + base verb for past states and actions
  • Would + base verb for past actions only (not states)
  • The critical state vs action distinction
  • Question and negative forms: use to (not used to) after did/didn’t
  • Past situations that are no longer true in the present